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I've been telling mine for years now, feel free to check it out below....
But more importantly, how can I help you?
I drifted for the first 38 years of my life, then I learned, it's never too late to find your life's purpose!
"You know that money you owe me?"
"Don't worry about paying it back."
Those words shattered my heart in an instant, and I said nothing for what seemed an eternity. We both knew what it meant; I just had no idea how to respond. This was my dad’s way of telling me that he was going to die … soon.
My Dad died in 2005 and nothing has you questioning your very existence like losing someone you love. I can vividly remember the conversation that I had with myself not long after as I walked through the same grey, boring, open plan office I walked through every weekday –
“Do you really want to keep living the life you’re living and then risk dying young like your Dad?!
You keep telling people you are happy but are you?!
You tell people that you love your job, but do you really?!”
I knew the answer to all 3 questions was a resounding NO!
At that point, I knew I wanted my life to be different. The trouble was, I didn’t know how to change.
I wanted someone to give me some direction because I felt like I had drifted for the last 30 years of my life. I wanted to find work that I actually loved, & that filled me with joy every day. Work that fired me up to be my best.
I also wanted to be able to feel a deep connection with all the closest people in my life. And I wanted to be comfortable in my own skin, and feel like I was stepping up to be the best version of me. In my heart, what I really wanted was fulfillment and meaning in my life. To feel like I was contributing to this world in a way that people would admire when my time on this planet was over. People said such amazing things about my dad at his funeral,
But what could they possibly have to say about me that I was proud of?
What would leave a legacy that inspired MY children?
As I would come to learn, when you ask the right questions you find the right answers. The week following I decided to hire my first coach, upgrade my mindset, and said goodbye to my old life. And I did! I started building a life where I was happy being me.
I was only 38; it wasn’t too late.
I absorbed myself in personal development. I couldn’t get enough of it!!! I was able to make so many positive changes in my life. I created an exciting vision for my future for the very first time and discovered the motivation to be my best and go after what I really wanted. I found work that had me buzzing and brought me so much joy. I created a deep connection with my family that warmed my heart.
I healed my internal pain and achieved a level of health I had not experienced since I was a child, and to top it all off I felt a sense of inner fulfillment I had never felt. Because things started to shift so quickly, I wanted to tell everyone I knew what was possible for them if they did the same. Other people needed to hear that change was possible for them too. I didn’t realise at the time, but I was in the process of finding my purpose.
I studied Process Oriented Coaching, NLP, Timeline Therapy, and High-Performance Leadership. I became a coach and began my journey of achieving phenomenal results with my clients. At the same time that I was starting my coaching business, I thought about the magnitude of what I wanted to achieve and it scared me.
“Who am I to think I can help people change?!
I’m no expert. What have I achieved in my life?”
It was then that I took the time to reflect on my journey, how far I had come and how much I had achieved in a relatively short period of time compared to the rest of my life.
I reminded myself that coaching is my gift, and it has always has been.
So many people needed my help and so I refocused all my energy into helping as many of them as I could. I learned that when you find the direction that is right for you, build the vision, and commit to taking action, the whole universe conspires to help you and life start to get exciting again. The answer to all of life’s problems is there for you to find if only you will look.
I now sit here writing this, reflecting back on all the wonderful clients I have helped in the last few years, with so much gratitude, joy, and love in my heart. Because my clients send me the most heart-warming messages, thanking me for helping them change their lives. And I remember …..like it was yesterday….the day my dad passed and I realised that I needed to change my life.
I achieved my dream. I’m living my life’s purpose, my SOUL’s purpose. I’m doing what I love and loving life. My mum is super proud of me and I know my Dad would be too. I feel so blessed that I am not only leaving a legacy that will inspire my family, I am inspiring them to be their best every single day. If you are still on your path to soul purpose,
Do the inner work!
Live your dream.
You CAN heal yourself, live your purpose, and change your world.
If not now, then when will the world get to hear your story?